My Labor Day Weekend

Okay well I wanted to enjoy my Labor Day Weekend. Okay well that didnt happen. I got home from work Friday night packed up the dog and the car and everything set off to pick up Matty from Daycare and head towards Kokomo and then onto the campground. Went to drop Matty off --- of course the witch was there -- I swear she doesnt let him do anything without her, what he sees in her is beyond me, I am glad I am 31 years old and I dont look in my 50's anyways went to drop Matty off and she of course makes comments, she cant keep her mouth shut, its all a game with her. But when she made comments about me being knocked up--okay I had to get out of there. I hugged Matty and yes I told him when I hugged him that he didnt have to listen to her because she is not his mommy I am his mommy and I left. I drove on into my friends campground--a huge thank you to my friends Bill and Janie for inviting me and Harley for the weekend. I got there just in time to play friday night bingo and thinking I was going to enjoy my weekend when my I got a text message from Michael's witch...what the hell? Her telling me that she didnt break up mine and Michael's marriage what the hell? I dont care anymore in my books she will always be a beotch and she will always be a homewrecker and her and Michael can have each other but they will never be the primary parents for my son. I am his mom. I am the one that is there for him no matter what, I am the one that makes sure he goes to bed on time every night and makes sure he is at daycare the next morning and then involved with him as much as I can. How the hell can dumbarse be a father and be in Matty's life when he is now an hour to an hour and a half away. When he was in Avon and I was here yeah he could be a part but not now. Anyways the text messages continued, I was trying to get to enjoy my weekend enjoy my bingo. Thank God for my friend Janie enough was enough for her, she called Mike on his cell and told him the messages had to stop. He of course lied through his teeth saying the messages werent coming from her phone although funny thing the caller id had her phone number on them. And even funnier thing the texts stopped when Janie called Michael. Anyways I was already shook up so I played the rest of the bingo night and went back to the campsite and went to bed.

Got up Saturday morning and my mom called me and invited me to a cookout at the house. Okay like I needed more crap in my life so I drove up there with Harley and went to the cookout. On the way up I called Jon and got him to bring Dustin up there and then to spend the night with my parents. The food and fellowship was awesome till the "have at it" session" and boy did we "have at it" so I called Jon and let him have it the whole earful my parents and my family gave me about Dustin being in Northern Indiana not being in Indy with me. I am praying for God to open an opportunity for Dustin to come back down here and go to school but in the meantime I know Dustin needs to be up there with his dad. But I also need my family's support in all of this, so I was like Jon what do we need to do. Well Jon had some ideas I love when he has ideas about all of this. We are going to buy webcams so we can be online and see each other and type on messenger and we are going to continue with the nightly devotions and Jon is promising to go back to letting Dustin see my parents twice a month realizing that we have to put the family back into all of this. He also got to stay the night with my parents Saturday night and go to the MDA Ride with his aunt and uncle the next day and his cousins and then go out to the farm with his dad and everything. The next morning when I left to go back to the campground there was no fighting, no animosity my mom and dad even hugged me goodbye which they havent done in awhile.

I headed back to the campground, back to my friends, found out that they had had an exciting night. One of the guys had gotten drunk and fell off his chair and into the fire! Ouch! He has 2nd and 3rd degree burns and they took him to the ER but Janie is an awesome nurse so he took awesome pre-care of him. We went to Sunday bingo (I didnt win anything) but for some reason apparently I must have been wearing an imaginary sign around my neck saying "unattached" because I was hit on 4 times this weekend! I MEAN What the heck 4 times!!! And these werent even guys I would have gone out with..I mean I admit I dont know who I would go out with anymore because frankly I am just not interested anymore. I have been hurt alot -- I dont even know what my type is anymore --anyways uggh. I am not a jerkmagnet!

Okay enough said on that. Sunday night was steaks and potatoes and I couldnt even eat my steak. Someday my appetite will come back I mean I am pregnant I should be eating like crazy and I am not---what the heck I think its all the stress I am under. Of course Mike had to call my phone Sunday night and ruin my evening it just had to happen--he was griping about medicine for Matty -- yes my son has a problem with his bowels and they have given him medicine to put in his juice but I am so ready to try something non-medicinal (I guess thats the new age mom in me) so hes like going off about the medicine to put in the juice being over the expiration date I of course am not making a very big deal about it, because I am going to agree with my mom on this one (yeah probably the only time her and I are going to agree) but I am ready to try raisin bran and fiber pills and not have to put meds down my son but apparently the "mommy-wife" who has had how many sick children die? is working to medicate my child--not going to happen--what is her deal anyway? She also was going off about allergy medication for my child--does she get it? MY Child, I am the one for the last 2 years has taken care of him while they have basically abandoned him and I, I know when we need to start taking the Zyrtec its not a daily thing with him, the only thing I do carry is his inhaler and we only have been using that a couple of times during the year. I am getting to be a big believer on not medicating children --- sorry "mommy-wife" to burst your bubble, unless a child needs it. Apparently she cant get that through her weed eater-blonde okay I will say its that color hair. Anyways hes like you need to call Riley and I am like nope I do not I know what my child needs. And you can just hear her go off in the background. Get over it beotch. This is MY healthy happy active little boy I was there through all the hospitalizations and follow ups and today hes almost 6 yrs old and a healthy happy active little boy that loves to ride his 2 wheeler and play and be ornery and just be Matty as I call it. We dont focus on the negative--she needs to get over it.

Okay well anyway Bill and Janie had some friends out Sunday night and had some fun and I actually enjoyed my evening although I was missing my boys (Dustin did call me about 730 to tell me about his day and the MDA Ride, he watched it with my parents and my family and then went out to Grandpa Zimmers for the rest of the day and of course had to call and tell me about all of it which I look forward to when he calls me and tells me about his day.)

I was planning on not coming home till Tuesday since I dont have to work till Wednesday and I could have some more "me time" since when the baby comes thats not going to happen much anymore, but of course Monday morning I was woken up by a phone call from the "doom and gloom" supercouple ....hahaha I like that one! Finding out when I could meet them to pick up Matty today. What part of take Matty to school on Tuesday do they not get? apparently all of it so I spent the morning with Janie and Bill and left to go pick up Matty. I was missing him big time anyway and he had been enough around them he needed his mommy, and I had had enough of the 2 of them. I was just glad getting him back. Of course he was wearing something I would not have picked out for him and daddy bought him new shoes (he has 3 pairs, enough with the shoes already!!!) and he was tired and cranky which means he didnt get his bedtime routine either, uggh but he was home back with me and amen when I left Kokomo he was back with me where he definitely belongs.

Today is my day off and I really needed to sleep in and well now I am up and blogging and Matty is off at school and let me tell you not in a good mood, tired from the weekend (go figure) so it will be an early night for him tonight I can just tell I have got to get up and get around and get some stuff done so Labor Day 2008 is over who knows where I will be in 2009 but thats the fun of it all --- each year, each holiday is a new adventure thats why I love life--yeah mine has sucked this year like big time but this blogging thing I can look back and see where I have come from and where I am going. ....of course, more later.