Omg!!! People just need to get over themselves!

I swear people need to just get over themselves! I am so sick of people telling me I need to go after Alison's father. He doesnt want to be a father, I have tried talking to him, texting him and nothing. You cannot make a person want to be a father even to a precious princess like my Alison Rene. He doesnt want to be a dad and there is nothing I can do to make him pay support and if he does pay support whats to say I will be in the same situation as I am with Matthew --fighting over custody all the time. No way I cant take that. Yeah Alison is on medicaid as a secondary insurance plus I pay for her medicaid so its basically just like a normal insurance! Military families are on tricare and my tax dollars pay for your tricare so military wives bitching about me being on medicaid as a secondary is really the pot calling black wouldnt you say? I cant help the situation that she was born into yeah its less than ideal but being a money grubbing bitch and going after a man who doesnt want to have anything to do with her isnt going to make things better. Too many people dont realize how hard going through this alone is and they are so quick to pass judgement on me for being a "whore" and then not wantin to go after the father because they have it in their thick skulls that he needs to pay. Why cause more problems and heatrache for an already fragile family situation? Not every family is made up of the perfect mom and dad and 2.2 kids and the big house with the new minivan. Life is tough. Life is messy. He will one day face the punishment he deserves for not being part of his baby's life Uggh this just urks me some people need to get off their high horse and realize that life isnt always perfect....OMG!!!!!